Monday, July 12, 2010

skinny and pretty...is that all that matters?


As a woman, is that all that matters? skinny and pretty?

no matter how old we are.
no matter what kind of person, mother, or wife we are.
no matter how much we "lift", or how heavy, or long, we swing a kettlebell.
no matter how many miles walk ,or run......

make-up, no make-up.

designer purses.......high heels.


is the "goal" to be the "hottest"?

what the "F" is "hot"? is the measure of "hot" gauged on who, or how many men want to have sex with us? I'm guessing...if we want to "give it up" there will be some man willing to take us up on it....so what! good lord.

who do you, we, want to impress?

is the goal to be the "hottest" 20-30-40-50-60-70-80-90-100 year old? How ridiculous does this start to become?

these days young girls want to become strippers! really? yep, really..... not just young girls, but old girls too! just go into the shoe dept of any major department store.....stripper shoes! is ther no other choice but stripper shoes?




all I need is my husbands love. all I need is to know that I am with someone who loved me when I weighed 250lbs, and wanted me as much then as he wants me now...how lucky am I?
PS if you are interested on purchasing the shoes pictured above, just fo to zappos.com!

9 comments:

Mark Reifkind said...

I love you always. no matter what.

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Diana said...

You don't have to go to shoe department to find those "old" stripper wanna-be's, just go to any local WalMart!
My hubby loved me when over 300lbs, kudos to the absolutely "great" guys in our lives!

Fatguy said...

You're both very lucky to have each other!

Tracy Reifkind said...

sweetie,

I'm counting on it, lol!

Tracy Reifkind said...

Diana,

funny! I think I've been to Walmart twice in my life....Target is a little more subdued...but just a little!

Mark has always been proud that I was his wife. When we owned World Gym, Campbell (CA), I was so embarrassed FOR HIM that I didn't even go throught the front doors for years....seriously. I didn't want anyone to know what a fat wife he had, since he was such a powerlifting (and former bodybuilding) superstar.

Even though, he always wanted me to come to his PL meets, and he never was ashamed or embarrassed of me. He simply wanted me to be healthy, and that's the only reason he ever mentioned dieting or execising.

Tracy Reifkind said...

fatguy,

Lucky, and smart!

Jen said...

Yep Tracy, I got me a good one too! LOL! Poor Greg goes through so much with me, I'm a lucky (and happy) girl!

Give that Mark of yours a big hug for me!! He's an awesome guy and the two of you make an AWESOME team!

Tracy Reifkind said...

Jen,

Greg is a gem....but you shine just as bright!