tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post3230611603545290819..comments2024-03-14T00:19:26.271-07:00Comments on Tracy Reifkind's Training Food and Thought: Not Eating is Not an Option, and that's OK!Tracy Reifkindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-59969503165799833532009-02-04T19:40:00.000-08:002009-02-04T19:40:00.000-08:00Great post Tracy!Great post Tracy!Renee Yorkievitz, RKChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02168485109392258966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-59897880675400740952009-02-04T13:33:00.000-08:002009-02-04T13:33:00.000-08:00Diana,I think we go on many journeys, and as one e...Diana,<BR/><BR/>I think we go on many journeys, and as one ends, another begins.<BR/><BR/>I went on a trip, a trip that landed me at 250lbs, I stayed for a while, and then I came home.....<BR/><BR/>I have the luxury now to take smaller trips but always returning home.Tracy Reifkindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-91217348621549015742009-02-02T22:09:00.000-08:002009-02-02T22:09:00.000-08:00It is good to have an end to journey to, but it is...It is good to have an end to journey to, but it is the journey that matters, in the end!Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12677754284276322596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-49682398540871773922009-02-02T14:09:00.000-08:002009-02-02T14:09:00.000-08:00Tara,My first response would be that in this blogp...Tara,<BR/><BR/>My first response would be that in this blogpost are my words of wisdom....and the last two years I spent writing about this very subject on my other blog....if you want to take the time and read some of the archives.....you might not like what else I have to say, lol!<BR/><BR/>But you asked.....First of all, I believe that no one "struggles with bodyweight", what they "struggle with" (and I hate that word "struggle") is eating! If they didn't overeat, bodyweight would not be a "struggle". Food is not the enemy, eating is, and we are in control of that, until we find a way to manufacture foods so they jumps into our mouths and force their way down our throats, lol!<BR/><BR/>You call them "old patterns" I call them "habits"...same thing....anyway, just like people choose the foods they eat, or overeat, they also choose to feel sad and frustrated. Recognize it's a choice....which is another point of this blogpost, one I have written about many times before.<BR/><BR/>When I choose to overeat, and I know I'm not going to stop, I change my attitude about it and focus on enjoying every single bite as not to waste any of my time on bad feelings. I remind myself of how lucky I am to be eating these yummy cookies, or this yummy ice cream or even an extra serving of oatmeal...yum, yum! <BR/><BR/>But I think the real issue is that for whatever reason, your "friend" likes to be a victim, like many others looking for sympathy and someone to commiserate with. I have little time or patience for anyone that really doesn't want to help themselves, which is one of the reasons I rarely even take the time to write such a lengthy response to a comment like this....I'm too tired of being everyone freakin' cheerleader....especially if I'm not getting paid! lol<BR/><BR/>No one was my freakin' cheerleader, no one had to meet me at the walking trail to practically hold my freakin' hand to get me to start exercising!<BR/>No one is cheering my ass in a 30 degree garage gym at 4:45am in the freakin' morning snatching Max Vo2. No one is cheering me on as I wash all the pots and pans I use when I cook and prepare my own homemade foods. <BR/><BR/>There's only so much you can do, and then it's your responsibility to cut your loses (your time loses) and focus on the friends, family and clients you CAN help. People can be alone in their misery, don't drag me down....<BR/><BR/>Sorry if these weren't the wise words you needed, but I needed to say them.Tracy Reifkindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-60655852977107655722009-02-02T08:51:00.000-08:002009-02-02T08:51:00.000-08:00Thank you Tracy! The timing is so perfect, I have ...Thank you Tracy! The timing is so perfect, I have a friend who has been struggling with her body weight. She says she wants to change, then turns around and makes food choices that are contrary to meeting those goals. This just makes her more sad and frustrated. I tried to tell her the choice is hard. Each moment at first will seem to be a choice as you break old patterns of relating to food. She keeps saying she wants the change but doesn't act on it. She is in a bit of a downward spiral and it's hard to stand-by and watch. Ultimately, I can only give her advice and offer tools, she must make it happen for herself. Any words of wisdom I could give her would be great!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com