tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post2863894385218942359..comments2024-03-14T00:19:26.271-07:00Comments on Tracy Reifkind's Training Food and Thought: You Are ValidTracy Reifkindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-21557022422838113692011-12-09T06:21:08.848-08:002011-12-09T06:21:08.848-08:00Judit,
I love to write...fingers crossed some of ...Judit,<br /><br />I love to write...fingers crossed some of it will turn into books!Tracy Reifkindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-54677919908449268202011-12-09T03:27:47.686-08:002011-12-09T03:27:47.686-08:00Great post, Tracy, and I also like Maribel's c...Great post, Tracy, and I also like Maribel's comment very much.<br /><br />Tracy,<br />keep writing books please :)Juci SFGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09987373919528262428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-16721058451624423282011-12-08T18:32:03.240-08:002011-12-08T18:32:03.240-08:00Maribel,
Part of needing validation IS "alwa...Maribel,<br /><br />Part of needing validation IS "always doing for others"....not so much for strangers or people that may not like us. Why do you, or have you, put others needs, wants, or opinions, about you first?<br /><br />You (we) didn't start out life feeling that you weren't worth it, none of us do.<br /><br />It's the things that happen to us throughout our lives, and it could be something as small as getting rejected by Ricky Halloway to go the 5th grade Sadie Hawkins dance (Gee....did that only happen to me?), or maybe you weren't you mother or fathers "favorite".<br /><br />I do believe we can be our own worst enemies, but we can also be our own biggest fan!Tracy Reifkindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07868257020358013257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813295658825716967.post-60086509244159302222011-12-08T09:04:28.555-08:002011-12-08T09:04:28.555-08:00Great post Tracy.
You know, it's not other pe...Great post Tracy.<br /><br />You know, it's not other people that have made me feel unwanted. In fact, when other people have treated me badly, I don't take it personal at all. I usually feel bad for them because I think that there is something that's bothering them so much that they are taking it out on someone else.<br /><br />That being said, it's been ME who's made me feel I'm not worth it. That sounds terrible, doesn't it? I've put everyone's needs before mine for years. My husband has soccer, so I can't workout. My kids have some activity or another, so I can't spend time for myself. They never imposed any of this on me, I did it.<br /><br />What's changed now? I have now chosen to put myself as a priority. Sure there's a lot of coordination needed, but I know now that I'm worth it. My self-worth has grown.<br /><br />Sometimes we are the worst to ourselves...maybe even more so than anyone else.Maribelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15154525905299973420noreply@blogger.com